On love itself: For me, love is a scary thing. Sure, it’s great in the beginning but when you fall in love, you’re likely to get hurt in the end. I’ve seen so many people who get hurt, get their hearts broken, be in so much pain because of love. I’ve seen so many couples who are happy in the beginning and end up getting hurt in the end. Love means becoming vulnerable and trusting the other person, thus giving them the power to hurt you. I know what it’s like to get hurt, and it really sucks.
Sometimes I think it’s better to be alone. So nobody can hurt me. Right now, I like feeling independent. I like the solitude of being by myself. It empowers me to know that I don’t need a man to be happy. I don’t want to be like those other girls whose worlds stop because of a guy, and when they break up, their source of happiness gets taken away. I just don’t want to rely on someone to be happy. I like being single right now. :)
I just find it really hard to trust people. Because in the end, I know that the only person I can truly rely on is myself.
On the best places to hang out during a date: My ideal date would be some place that isn’t too crowded. Somewhere quiet and private where we could just talk and just enjoy each other’s company. Maybe a coffee shop, or a nice, cozy restaurant. I think going to a concert together would be fun too. Just enjoying the music, noise and the screaming together would be great. Or just doing something that we both like would be a good way to spend time with each other.
On what turns you on: Captivating eyes, nice hair, dimples & a great smile.
On your type of guy: A guy with talent. Guys who are fun to be with, trustworthy, someone with respect, always there when I need someone, someone who can be both my bestfriend & boyfriend, someone who loves you selflessly. Erk. I have high expectations and standards. -_- Thanks to celebrities and fictional characters lol
Also, I want someone that my family will approve of. I want someone who can change my negative views on love. Someone that can give me that feeling that THIS IS IT. This is the one. He’s the one.
On PDA: Too much PDA is just.. ugh. NO.
I’m a private person, and I’d rather spend moments of affection with just that one special person. I don’t need to let other people see or witness that. It irks me to see people canoodle or make out all over the place. And when I see them frequently, I’m like, don’t you get bored sick of each other? Nakakasawa kaya yung ganun kapag palagi kayong nagkikita and stuff. Mas okay para sakin yung may onting distance, para naman mamiss nyo yung isa’t isa. And another thing, if you want to show the world that you’re so damn in love, guess what? THEY PROBABLY DON’T CARE. So you don’t have to make out everywhere or spend every second with them and whatnot.
I have to admit though, some couples do look cute. I admire those girls who remain sophisticated and poised when they are with their partners. Some girls are just… ugh I can’t explain it.
On Homosexual Love: I believe in all forms of love. I also believe in what Anne Hathaway said: “Love is a human experience, not a political statement.”
